Saturday, December 14, 2013

Good Bye Madiba - A Tribute to Mr. Nelson Mandela

There were moments of despair. Moments when he would have questioned his decision to join public life, during his years in jail, in midst of loneliness and separation from family, his strength might have eluded him. Interestingly he too had some good time before that ‘long walk to freedom’ – some flings, courtship with one of the most desired ladies, his second wife Winni, and a flourishing legal practice. Yes…as it might look…it all started like any other normal life, but then he learnt and evolved along the way. He failed time and again, but continued on his path – finally leading to a life which today is no less than of a saint.

However in his own words “I am not a saint, unless you think of a saint as a sinner who keeps on trying.” You might have got it right by now. I am talking about respected Nelson Mandela who died last week.

This blog piece is my tribute to him, one of my personal icons. I once accidently caught hold of his biography, though it is disputed to be ghost written, named ‘Long Walk to Freedom’ and for next two weeks I lived his story till the book was complete. Each event of his life is inspiring. He lived a full life - of good careless childhood, of satisfied marital bliss, of successful career, of separation and arrest, of moral rise and evolution of statesmanship. A full life, worth every bit of it.

His act of reconciliation and path on which South Africa surged in his presidency is exemplary. Two incidents from his life will always remain with me. Sharing below for you:

Once at Robben Island where he spent 18 years of his 27 years long jail term, guards ordered Mr. Mandela to dig a grave shaped trench in the prison yard. He thought that this was his end. But instead as he stood in the grave he had dug, they urinated on him. Years later, when drawing up the list of the select group to invite to his inauguration as president of South Africa, Mr. Mandela insisted on inviting his former jailers and guards.

And other incident is about his active participation and support for springboks rugby team during rugby world cup 1995. Springboks was predominantly a white team with huge fan following amongst white community. He used the event carefully to convey the message of peace and unity thorough the path of reconciliation. His shared the poem ‘Invictus’ with the team to inspire them before the final. Mr. Mandela read it time and again to seek strength during his oppressive stay at Robben Island. I conclude my tribute to Mr. Mandela with the lines of Invictus. Rest in Peace Mr. Mandela!   You life is an inspiration. It’s a challenge for all of us to imbibe even bits of the values you lived with.

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be

For your unconquerable soul
Good Bye Madiba!
watch the adaption of the poem in a movie with the same name: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=1dSFhM2X-V4

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Sachin, Arjuna and the Gurus who stood behind!!!

Sachin's Guru Shri Ramakant Achrekar
with his brother.
Two incidents of last week, one real and other in reel, caught my attention.  Yes, I am talking about Sachin Tendulkar’s retirement. Each of us had a personal story to tell and no doubt my facebook newsfeed page was full of posts about Sachin from friends. And simultaneously new channels kept playing old Sachin’s tapes, discussions and then there was the LIVE match. It was the last hurrah of the man, though I personally pray and wish that his best is yet of come, maybe out of cricket field, out of those 22 yards that he mentioned in this farewell speech. Sachin received a farewell which he truly deserved. He once again brought happiness, joy and yes....tears on the faces of his countrymen. In midst of all this, we saw a fragile man in red shirt being driven on wheel chair into the stadium. Man, who had driven Sachin on his scooter to different fields, was driven on wheel chair on that day to watch his pupil’s last run between the wickets. You got it right I am referring to Sachin’s guru Shri Ramakant Achrekar. That very moment caught the essence of a guru shishya relation. If sachin didn’t forget the contribution of his teacher in his success, guru acknowledged the contribution of pupil in his own name and fame. They both contributed to each other. If a pupil/mentee is successful it’s the teacher/mentor who is credited as well. In all these celebrations, this beautiful message was lost somewhere.

The other incident was in a teleserial. I am a great fan of Mahabharat. It keeps fascinating me, and each episode of it is a new revelation no matter how many times I watch it. So understably I was super excited when the new Mahabharat started on StarPlus. In one of the episodes, after Guru Dronacharya asked for Eklavya’s right hand thumb in Guru Dakshina, Arjuna confronts him. The conversation happens as below: (watch the full conversation @ http://www.startv.in/episodes/arjun-rescues-dronacharya-from-a-crocodile/55858):


Arjun: Gurudev! Don’t you have faith on me? Can’t I become the best archer by my own hardwork?

Drone: Don’t you have faith on you Guru? Do you think I am biased towards you to make you the greatest archer?

Arjun: then why did you ask such a guru dakshina from Eklavya?

Drone: It’s my right to decide what I want in Guru Dakshina from which of my pupil.

Arjun: But why such a Dakshina which becomes an accusation?

Drone: I understand, my dear Arjun!.....Dhitrashtra sons would accuse me of biasness.........not only they....even the generations to come would accuse me of biasness. But I was bound by Dharma, my dear Arjun. Eklavya was a Magadh Kingdom’s citizen. He would have used my teachings against Hasthinpur where my duty lay. I was duty bound.

Arjun: Is teaching also bounded by the boundaries of kingdom, Gurudev?

Drone: No! But a teacher is bound by his commitment to a nation.  I survive on alms provided by Kuru Nation Hashtinapur. My commitment is for it. If Eklavya would have become the greatest archer by teaching from some other Guru, I would have been happier.

Arun: But how would you absolve yourself of this accusation, my dear Guru?

Drone: There is a way son. You prove it, without any doubt, that you are the best archer in this world. Better that Eklavya, better than even your grandfather Bhisma. Go and prove it to the world, my son! Go and prove!! If you could do this, none would accuse me. I would be absolve of this paap.

Mesmerising.....such an intense conversation between a teacher and pupil. Both these events stated the unstated: importance of a teacher/ a mentor in one’s life. In today’s time, when we seek the best of the facilities for our daughters/sons, do we seek the right teacher? I went back to my school days, and came forth the image of two wonderful teachers I had early in my life, which made me capable enough to make my living today. But what lies beyond this, I seek...I plan.....I fail......I wonder will I find a mentor at this stage of my career? Setting aside, I bow to Guru Drone and Shri Achrekar!!!

(Images used above are from Google Image Search)

Friday, January 18, 2013

The Truth – A Short Story


This story has already been published by YourStoryClub (An Online Publisher) @ http://yourstoryclub.com/short-stories-social-moral/short-story-the-truth/
“What would you like to order, Sir?” asked the waiter, carefully pouring water into the glass.
“Masala tea with toast for me and what would you have Mihir?” replied Sam who was sitting at the preferred table of his favourite cafe. This table was at the farthest corner from the entrance, having open terrace at one side while the city traffic bustling on the road on the other side of it. Glass window provided the needed separation between the two worlds – AC cooled, peaceful, coffee smelt interior from the hot and humid, dusty and dark outside.
“I will also have masala tea with toast. Bring in two” said Mihir, signalling the waiter to leave.
Sam sipped some water from glass, looked at Mihir and said with a smile, “You know Mihir…I might not be a very lovable and popular manager, but I have always delivered the goods. Never ever in my career, I have missed any deadline and nor would allow my team to miss any at this stage of my career. I might be ruthless, but I am effective. I have built my reputation within the organization on this strength. This is my last lesson for you as a manager – never lose sight of the goal i.e. deadline”
He paused for a while. The pride in his eyes was visible, his voice got hard and confident. He continued, “And if it is a deadline and someone in the team will have to die. I mean…will have to work till he is dead…..do you understand?”
Sam laughed loud. Mihir could only match it with a fainted smile.
Sam was Mihir’s manager for last five years. He had now been promoted to senior manager position and was asked by organization to handover his responsibilities to Mihir. He had been grooming Mihir for some years and after handing over most of his responsibilities in last six month, was invited by Mihir for coffee at Sam's favourite cafĂ©.
“Sam..but where is the line between me as person and me as an employee? Can I allow organizational needs to spoil my personal relation with colleagues?” asked Mihir.
“Aahaa…there you go. Remember….Mihir cease to exist the moment you reach the desk. He is the employee of the organization and should do whatever has been asked by the seniors…whatever is good for the organization” replied Sam.
Waiter had brought the tea and toast, and left after putting it on table. Sam pushed one set towards Mihir and continued after taking a bite of the toast, “You know Mihir…on this very table…I have given termination letter to more than 20 of my colleagues. Do you remember Saurabh? I was very close to him personally but I had to terminate him because organization wanted me to do so. But to control such incidents to some extent and to relieve myself of depression, I made the separation smooth, for all of them, by doing if outside the office with a parting coffee at my favourite cafe…at this very table. That was the only luxury I allowed myself while dealing with my colleagues.”
There was no sign of remorse on his face. Stone faced, he continued sipping tea.
“I understand Sam. But why should an organization lay off an employee who has given his best for years to it. We are a family. If the organization is not doing well, if external business environment is adverse……..other alternatives could be found out like reduction in salaries, or job rotation rather than terminating the services.” countered Mihir.
“It’s easier said than done Mihir. Employees’ salaries are the largest operating expenditure for the organization and it is the first thing we should be controlling. Those who are laid off are not the under performers all the time. Sometimes they are the well paid ones whom company can’t afford in the times of distress.” added Sam.
Mihir had, meanwhile, finished his tea. Sam signalled to the waiter to bring the bill. They walked towards parking after Mihir had paid the bill. Mihir brought out one envelope from his bag and passed it towards Sam, saying "Kiran (senior of Sam) gave it to me to pass on to you as he is outstation at the moment".
“What is it?” asked puzzled Sam and looked at the envelope. It had the seal of the organization with ‘Confidential’ marked in bold red font over it. He tore it apart and immediately his eyes caught the subject line ‘Termination of Service’.
“How can they do this to me? I was promoted just 6 months ago and have I got so expensive in these six months that they can’t afford me now. I had given my blood and sweat for this organization…literally……..I have sacrificed my personal life. And see what did I get in return? “thundered Sam.
He was visibly shaken up. Never did he imagine himself facing such a moment even in his dreams. However hard he might have tried to control, tears were visible in his eyes. He stood still, looking at the car which he has brought on loan some months ago.
Mihir gave him a soft pat on the back, held his hand for a while, and suddenly turned back and walked away, like Sam had done on Saurabh and 19 others.
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